The saddest story about a friend of mine...

i was browsing facebook last night alone in my room. just something i always do when i am waiting for Maghrib prayer. then i came across this page of one married guy i know who puts a picture of a lady who i am sure NOT his wife..but he calls her sayang...and my future...
sigh...i know for sure they just got married last 2 years right after our wedding too, but i wasn't able to come to their wedding due to some last minutes plan thingy. damn it..
she (the wife) is someone i know during our wedding, and as far as i can remember, she (the wife) is the sweeeeeetest person ever! i mean, she has the cutest smile, that chinese's look face, bersopan santun, even my sister adores her so much! they have the cutest baby girl with a cute name (i shouldn't reveal her baby's name too aits) and what i got to say from the wedding album, it was all perfect!

As i can recall last year, (ni semua through browsing fb by jump one to another page..hehe), her husband went to overseas for some work, and they've been in a long distance rship eversince then. for quite a long time gak, and i remember she was pregnant at that moment-husbandless! long time after that, the wife started to express her anger at her fb status like almost everyday, cakap pasal Karma lah, Allah Maha Adil, perempuan t**t lah...so i sensed that something was wrong. but ala, malas nak jaga tepi kain orang kan. orang dah tulis kat status, baca n ignore aje lah. but then later on, i noticed her hubsand is not in her friends list (until now pun diorg dah delete each other nya fb), and looking at their marital status pun, husband n wife dah both single. fb status laki pun cam ala2 down, confused, etc...pun i ignored je lagi. yela takkan ttibe nak comment kan. dah la kenal2 gitu je. then her wife gave birth, i saw a picture of the baby with the father, and with the mother. but they don't look happy with each other, abit awkward, but somehow i know the father loves his daughter so much, i can see it in his face. (ok again, this is all last year's story!)

sampaaaai yesterday, in the recent albums, by his name, title My future..., is a different lady, with a sexy looks, i was like...ok.....terus je browse the tagged pictures of him, and nampak ada laaa gambar the husband yang tengah berpeluk sakan dengan perempuan itu (not the wife). i guess their marriage is over.....cause he's been calling the perempuan itu sayang, and the way they peluk each other is like they are the newlyweds!
warghhh sedihnya!! baru one year plus marriage, with a beautiful baby girl, belum one year pun lagi, tp the parents dah not together...and the best part is, the perempuan itu is a stewardess! argghhhhh!!! sedihnya!!! dahla the (ex) wife n i pernah gossip pasal Dato' K ni ada other gf is also a stewardess because the (ex) wife ni ada kawan stewardess gak, thats why she knows the rumour was actually true (dulu la..) and the kawan stewardess selalu nampak Dato' K n her gf stewardess ke UK (dulu la...)

i've always know something like this is used to happen, to actresses or actors yes! (since diorg bersosial sangat, berlakon beriya2, berparty, etc) but not to somebody i know...it is sooo sad to see how people failed to work on their marriage, especially when they have baby/kids growing up together. how can a baby lives without seeing her father everyday just like everybody else. kesiannya dia...huhu

menjadi2 sangat lah case divorce ni sekarang. susah ke nak setia pada yang dah ada tu ek. key to happiness is simply hold on to each other no matter what. cuma bila ada orang lain cucuk jarum tu yang rasa nak bunuh je orang tu! sebab bila dah cucuk jarum tu yang feelings tu terus kacau. dah rasa nak start compare orang tu dengan orang ni, tu yang susah tu. yela bila ada imperfection terhadap partner, pastu ada org lain perfect plak tang tu, memang laa yang lagi satu tu menang. tp dari segi lain kena tahu jugak dia perfect ke tak. mesti ada prons and cons. yang penting, belajar berdepan dengan imperfection partner kita. alaaa...nobody's perfect!! trust, loyalty & honesty are simply the best policy! though for me, trust orang tu susaaaaaaaaah sangat, tp kena try la kan. sampai bila nak kena berkepit je. now i am abit loose sikit la. tak kepit sangat. tp, tak loose sangat tau. kan ada je perhati pun susah. tulaaa dapat orang sedap mata memandang ni mmg susah...mmg orang lain nak pandang je :(

okla, hopefully my dear friend the (ex) wife tabah menjadi single mother. though like i said to Helmi, dia gorgeous, memang ramai lelaki nak punya. tapi, yela, she's been with the (ex) husband for quite a longgg time already, ingat senang ke nak lupa and jumpa orang lain camtu je. dengan ada anak lagi. hm...hope for the best for her and everyone too! semoga kita semua happy dan dijauhi dari orang2 cam stewardess tu....aminnnnnnn